Self Deceit: the why, the how and the solution

Self deceit is pretty self explanatory in some ways. It obviously means that the person is fooling themselves and addressing things realistically.

But if you are seeing the world through rose colored glasses, how to you know that you are doing it? After all, you look out and see everything looks fine. How can you know that they way you are seeing things is not how things really are?

There are of course many ways to do this and depending on the severity of the situation counselling may be the answer.

Handwriting can help identify Self Deceit.


People indulge in self deceit on an unconscious level to avoid dealing the difficult situations and problems of all sorts. They can zero in on just a few of the facts – the ones that fit their desires – and not see other more negative indications, thus reinforcing their inner concept that all is well.

The up side of this trait is that in an unhappy situation self deceit can help someone focus on the positives.

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If it’s a situation where the individual has no control at all, focusing on the positives can help take them through whatever difficulties are ahead.

If you deceive yourself you are believing in something that is not correct.

You may have just part of the story.

You may have created a totally new story.

Either way, if you talk to others you may, with every intention of being honest, pass on wrong information.

For example: If you are totally convinced that your car is safe to drive, you may either take in out on the highway yourself, or lend it to another family member to do so.

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If it was not safe, and you were just believing that to avoid the worrisome prospect of having to pay a great deal to get it fixed, you may unintentionally have caused either yourself or the person to whom you lent your car get into an accident.

If the family member who wanted to borrow the car asked you if the car was safe to drive on the highway, you would answer “yes” because that is what you believe. You have not been allowing yourself to see the signs of trouble, because the cost would be a huge issue.

The self deceiver just convinces themselves that all is well.

Self deceit shows in writing where there is a loop on the left side of the circle letters (a, o, g, d)

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The more often this loop appears and the bigger it is, the more this writer suffers from self deceit.

As with any other change-able personality trait, you can get rid of self deceit through Graphotherapy.

So don’t shy away from things, meet them face on and develop the success traits to help you> >

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