Aggressive, Assertive or Passive: Your Writing Tells.

Have you ever considered that your writing will show how aggressive,  assertive or passive you are?

Aggressive, Assertive or Passive: Your Writing Tells.

Aggressive, Assertive or Passive: Your Writing Tells. Your handwriting is body language, and just as your other body language will show whether you are aggressive, assertive or passive, so will your writing.

The other bonus from identifying it from writing is that if you don’t like which you are, you can change it by changing your writing.

So how do Aggressive, Assertive and Passive show in your writing?

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St. Patricks Day … and your handwriting

You don’t have to be Irish to have the Gift of the Gab

But with St. Patrick’s Day in March, our thoughts turn to shamrocks, the “luck of the Irish” and the “Gift of the Gab”.

If you are Irish then a very happy St. Paddy’s day to you.

However that said, we’ll leave the Irish to their luck and their shamrocks, and concentrate here on the gift of the gab, which in less colloquial terms would be identified as persuasive communication skills.

Here is how to identify just who has this sought after gift, who has not, and how it will be used.

Without ever meeting the person in question.

How?  By looking at their handwriting. So dig out those Valentine’s from last month and check them for “Irish-ness”.

shamrock

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Jealousy is an insecurity

Jealousy when seen in a small child, whose family has just grown to include a new baby, is easily identifiable as an insecurity.  The child is worried that there won’t be enough love and attention to go around, and that they will receive less.

In adults it can be harder to recognize, but it still has the same roots. Someone else has, or is perceived to have, something the jealous person wants.

Identifying jealousy in your own or someone else’s writing can help deal with it.

Knowing from where the behavior stems makes coping with it more possible.

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Aggressiveness: Quick Tip #12

Aggressiveness has a negative ring to it.

To say someone is aggressive brings to mind someone pushing ahead without regard for others.

It can indeed be that, but that is not necessarily the case.  Whether it is present in the personality, and whether is it a negative or a positive can be easily identified from handwriting.

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Secretiveness: Can you keep a Secret? Quick Tip #12

When you say the phrase “keeping a secret” most people immediately think of deep, dark, mysterious or bad topics.  Or “What do you have to hide.”

But really secretiveness is just maintaining confidentiality.

And the trait of secretiveness is easy to identify in handwriting.

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Self Deceit: the why, the how and the solution

Self deceit is pretty self explanatory in some ways. It obviously means that the person is fooling themselves and addressing things realistically.

But if you are seeing the world through rose colored glasses, how to you know that you are doing it? After all, you look out and see everything looks fine. How can you know that they way you are seeing things is not how things really are?

There are of course many ways to do this and depending on the severity of the situation counselling may be the answer.

Handwriting can help identify Self Deceit.

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People Skills: How to Like and be Liked

A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out. Anon

People Skills:

The basic key is to just be friendly! No mystery, but also no hidden agenda, no hooks and barbs.

We all are drawn to people who like us. There may be some people who like us who we don’t like in return. But on the other hand, it’s hard to like someone if they don’t seem to like you.

Some people just naturally make others feel liked and appreciated.

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Procrastination: How to identify it and how to stop it

Webster’s Dictionary describes procrastination as “to put off doing something that should be done, dawdle, delay.”

In handwriting there is a trait called procrastination, that means just that: to put off, dawdle or delay.  But it is not the only trait that illustrates this behavior.

That is one of the amazing (and useful) things about handwriting analysis, that is can show you, with a clarity that nothing else I know of can, from there the behavior originates and what is the underlying cause.

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Listening Skills and your Handwriting

Listening is a skill.  It is a skill that remarkably few people have to any degree.

In general we think of listening as staying quiet as someone talks.

But there is so much more to this skill and your natural writing can help you see where you excel and where … well, where you don’t excel!

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